So the choice of the name soft kore gamer came about due to other things I wanted to use weren't available and to emphasize that my gaming is not so hard core that I go out and spend tons of money on hd tvs and brand new game systems. I carefully plan for what I want, saving up slowly.
I also don't spend most of time gaming. I may have used to, but now I have more important things to do. I still enjoy gaming but my time has to be more concentrated, I have to be more picky about what I play/do. I'm also more of a social gamer now. I still like Warcraft 3 and the various great FPS games available (I don't just play DDR), but I enjoy them 200% more when I am playing with friends that I can communicate with while playing.
that's all I got to say bout that
I am 26. I grew up in a town of around 45K people in Michigan.
My dad is a Ph.D. Chemist working for a big company for the last 28 years. He always liked chemistry. Even as a kid he had a chemistry set making smoke bombs in his LA suburb garage till his parents "accidentally" misplaced it one year. His brother that used to play cowboys and indians became an Orange County sheriff, and his other brother works on spy satellite technologies. (at least that's the story I remember)
He liked computers as a hobby. When companies were making computers that you bought in a kit and attached some wires to a circuit board to perform basic math functions and were selling it for thousands (or hundreds) and calling them home computers, he wanted one though he couldn't afford it. After graduating and finding a job (or during graduate school, I'm not sure) he found a TI-99 4a home computer. I grew up playing with it. It was like an atari with a built in keyboard and BASIC programming language. It had cool games and a speech synthesizer.
Bill Cosby endorsement:
It can speak for itself (a little long winded imo):
Before I was born in 1982, or before I can remember, he had an Amiga 1000 which could run circles around all the cool Apple computers of the day.
Old Amiga TV ad:
The Portal song "Still Alive" written in the Amiga music composer - fitting song:
I can vividly recall the day when he was showing my older sister some games he had on the Amiga while I was playing the TI. Those games looked much cooler. So I asked him to show me how to play them.
The Amiga had awesome games and could do some impressive 3d graphics and you could write music in a program that is scarily similar to current day's Finale software. He taught me how to run programs and play games well enough that I mastered the floppy swap by the age of 6 (There was no hard drive and only one 3.5 inch floppy drive. Any time a program needed information from the system, you had to swap the floppies back and forth about 3 times).
When I was 10 we moved from southern Indiana back to Michigan. (Ok, I skipped over moving to Indiana, but it really doesn't matter that much) Our old Amiga wasn't quite the power horse it used to be. 486s had come down in price enough and so we bought a brand new Gateway 2000 486 DX2 66 Mhz, with (8? 16?) Mb RAM and a 5 or 10Gb hard drive. We were on the Net before there was a world wide web. Dialup BBS sites to get jokes and ebooks. We tried AOL when it came out, decided it stank then (still does imho. Too much fluff. Give me a connection and the browser of my choice and I'm happy.)

I forgot to mention that back before the 486 was NES. I was there, I went to the store with my dad

Many good memories with Nintendo. Sega came and went, but I stuck with Mario. After Sony came out with the Playstation and favorites like Street Fighter and Mega Man moved to the PS I had to stick with Mario, he was about all that was left. Other good things came and left for Nintendo. Goldeneye 64 was awesome, as well as many other 64 games. But while the PS2 and the XBOX were making a scene, the gamecube kept chugging along doing cutesy stuff. I didn't notice it too much while I was off at college and on the mission. When I helped my family get a Wii for that first christmas, they sent me the olf gamecube. My wife and I were excited about the Wii because it promised to be a game system that we could both enjoy together. So we played some great GC titles and dreamed of the day when she would be interested in something I enjoyed so much that she would play with me (on the Wii. She played some GC titles too, but not that often.)

Are games moving away from me? Or am I outgrowing them? I love a good game, always have. Is it a matter of time and money? After reading this article and comic I'm not exactly sure what to think. Nintendo has moved to the casual gamer side of the table. M$ and Sony are still making games for the 10-18 year old market (mainly). Who is making games for the busy 26 year old that wants a good story, great graphics, exciting game play, and some gaming respect on a budget?
I guess the trophy goes to who and whatever we make time for. It will take some research, time and maybe a little money, but I hope to keep this entertaining hobby of mine alive somehow.